that being said, i really. fucking. hate. lateness.
*sub-category - perpetual lateness, increases my annoyance and intolerance exponentially as each offense occurs.
with that being said, whenever i try and do something really good for someone, to help them out - and they thank me by say, being late? it nullifies the entire transaction and i no longer have any regard or concern for the offender.
lateness is not a good look. perpetual lateness looks even. worse. if u can't be on time for something trivial, the odds of u being on time for the real deal are slim to non-existent. and i just can't have that reflect back on me. especially when i'm a person who actually goes out of the way to be early. for everything.
and yes, i do hold it against the offender without a terribly good reason and/or with less than a half hour's notice.
Remember drumline? that horrible Nick Cannon movie? Coach said it best - "you're on time if you're early, you're late if you're on time"
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....I love it.
The shoe-thrower, Muntadhar al-Zaidi, evidently yelled (in Arabic) "This is a farewell ... you dog!" ....isnt that a darn shame
| "I recently attended a seminar and someone said that women need to hear, "I love you." Men need to hear "I believe in you." So powerful, because I could never put into words what I wanted to hear in my relationships. When I hear "I love you" it doesn't mean much to me at all. But if I had a woman who said "I believe in you" it would be very encouraging. Hearing this could make all the difference in the world. It's not an ego thing. It would just be uplifting and encouraging. Be honest, ladies. Do you believe in black men as a whole?? If you did express that you believed in us, how do you think it would change things in our culture? Do you feel that white women believe in their men more? less? equally?" As a man, or a woman, do you agree with what this guy says? Is that how you feel? I think there might be some weight to it. I have two guys very close to me that more often than not, ask if i have faith in them, or believe in them and what they're doing, than asking if I love them. And i really cant lie like I sometimes dont annoy people by asking if i'm loved. |
